More Dating Advise for Women by: W.R Scott

I hear women say all the time, "There are no more good men out there". I can't help but to shake my head in pity for these poor women. What makes them think that way? The truth is there are millions-upon-millions of eligible men who are searching for that ideal woman that they can spoil and make feel like a queen. Wouldn't you love for this to be you? The problem with most women is that they don't know what it takes to attract a good man and have a lasting relationship. It all begins with what I like to call the fairy tale perception. The fairy tale perception is taught to women while their still little girls. You find this false perception in cartoons like Cinderella or The Sleeping Beauty. My favorite is the Sleeping Beauty. One would assume that women do not have such unrealistic expectations when it comes to attracting the right man, but that couldn't be farther from the truth.

The truth is women are still living their lives sleeping (like the beauty), hoping for the tall, dark, and handsome prince to come in on his white stallion-and sweep them off their feet with his magical kiss. The silver screen has become the dictator of what it means to have a lasting relationship. Women flock to the TV to catch their favorite episode of "Desperate Housewives" or "sex in the city", hoping to get some insight on how to have a successful relationship. It seems that women everywhere have lost faith in dating and relationship. Hopes of falling in love, getting married, and having children, have been replaced by a "get what you can get" attitude. Well, are you ready for a change? Good. The first thing you have to do is get rid of all of the misinformation that you received throughout your lifetime. That's right! You have to abandon everything you were taught about men that caused you to feel the way you do about them. Women who have been burned in a relationship have the tendency to give biased advice.

Some of these women are your sisters, aunts, grandmothers, and yes...even some mothers.
The advice that they give you about lasting relationships was based primarily upon their personal experiences and not on the facts. Have you ever had someone tell you that a certain movie was bad, and then you went and saw it yourself, only to find out that it was one of the best movies you've ever seen? Or have you ever had someone to tell you that a certain restaurant was good but when you ate there you found that it was the total opposite of what they said it was? This is just a few examples of why you should never let someone else's experience become your reality. It's time for you to experience that love in your life that defies all that you thought you ever new about attracting men-and lasting relationships. As I stated earlier, men are not to be sought after, they are to be ATTRACTED.

If you desire to attract a man, YOU must become attractive. Stop listening to your unhappy friends and begin to change how you think. Before anything can remotely begin to change in your life, you have to first change the way you think. Negative thinking is unattractive. You have to believe that you can attract any man you want...and keep him, regardless of your past failures.